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Ok, so can somebody tell me what percentage of guys working out in the average gym actually like other men or maybe will get down with another guy?

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I guess it depends upon the type of gym and the membership it attracts. I have never gone to the gym to hook-up, I always went there to exercise.

I say  a MINIMUM of 20% of the guys  at an average gym would do so. (get it on with other men). But, I bet fewer than10% meet their partners at their gym,  Like Johnny, I go to the gym for the sole purpose of working out. The gyms i have gone to were very conducive to chitchat and friendship formation. There have been a few rare occasions where I developed crushes on other gym members, and pursued them.

Question for the BigBlackMusclesMEN in the room: WHERE AT THE GYM do you most often sense OTHER MEN stalking or scoping YOU?   FREE WEIGHTS / MACHINES/ TREADMILLS / LOCKER ROOM / SHOWER-SAUNA / FRONT LOBBY ?

I would put RAY OF 1SUN's MINIMUM 20% up a little higher--maybe to 35-40%.  Having said that, I would qualify it by saying, "possibly would do so."  To me, the likely percentage seems higher than it would be if taken from a random sampling of 100 men walking down the street. 

I believe the percentage is much higher (like 60%).  I don't expect most of them to ever qualify said # by 'hollering at' or "getting busy" either.  Most of us have much to lose getting caught peeking/lusting and even following thru with a secure 'hook up' in a safe location.  Most brothers are voyeurs and probably get-off secretly just seeing good-looking men in a confined environment where a slip of a towel or innocent bend reveals more than a porn vid.

Honestly, most of the dudes I've met privately would never indulge or let on that they do so in such a public environment like a gym.  Whereas, a gym is the place to see a hot bod, "sharp" brothers don't risk it that often.  However, that doesn't negate the fact that many are certainly wishing for a back-shot (ass view), someone to join them in the shower for a quick nut, or even a nice grind session in the steam room.  Sure, gyms are not a pick-up joints-or, not intended to be, but living in Miami, Atlanta, and now Philly I've seen more action than anyone would imagine.  Hence, my claim that 60% of gym users are potentially interested is a quantifiable. 

The percentage of sexuall activity really varies by neighborhood.  It's high but not 60% although 60% of the guys might be down with it-- and watch!  Old YMCAs like the one on 23rd Street in Manhattan were extremely active, especially in the executive club which had a private sauna, private showers, and steam room.  All the executive clubs were active.  I'm sure that's partly why they were eliminated.  I think the percentage is more like 10-20%. 

@Rip...I remember the now defunct Bally's at the Woolworth building, downtown NYC....the shower/steam room/sauna area were more akin to a Bath house....the [sexual] activity was almost legendary...seriously!....in one of the Bally's in downtown Chicago, things got so out of hand they actually hired a Security guard to monitor the locker room/shower/steam room area....it was hilarious (at least for me)....I will go along with @Sebastian's percentage.....and that of course depends on the gym, it's clientele and its "culture".....some research has shown that working out increases ones libido significantly....so it shouldn't surprise anyone that some men are extremely horny after working out....not to mention, the thrill of the "forbidden" and the thrill of the conquest all play a role in how some men interact sexually at gyms....and yes, I'm no angel and did have a few "moments" that shall remain safely locked away in my memory vault.....LOL

Wow I get so hot and turned on with a wet throbbing cock just going to gyms (that's why I don't go too much ) but damn that Bally would  have had me leaking like crazy!! No soap mess art just to get off in the showers

Victor Pond said:

@Rip...I remember the now defunct Bally's at the Woolworth building, downtown NYC....the shower/steam room/sauna area were more akin to a Bath house....the [sexual] activity was almost legendary...seriously!....in one of the Bally's in downtown Chicago, things got so out of hand they actually hired a Security guard to monitor the locker room/shower/steam room area....it was hilarious (at least for me)....I will go along with @Sebastian's percentage.....and that of course depends on the gym, it's clientele and its "culture".....some research has shown that working out increases ones libido significantly....so it shouldn't surprise anyone that some men are extremely horny after working out....not to mention, the thrill of the "forbidden" and the thrill of the conquest all play a role in how some men interact sexually at gyms....and yes, I'm no angel and did have a few "moments" that shall remain safely locked away in my memory vault.....LOL

Rip Tobin, the question was "...like other men or maybe will get down... ?"  It wasn't asking about "sexual activity" in the gym in question.  To further, this very site (bigblkmuscles) doesn't preclude bros that 'do get down w/ other men' from joining. but the mere fact that muscles are on display attracts all kinds of dudes.  Hence, it is my experience that more than not are "attracted" other men- whether they will act on it or not is another question that said individuals have to qualify with their own mouths.  Maybe if the proctor had asked, "What is the percentage of sexuall (sic) activity quantifiable by your own eyes/experience"-then maybe one would have to visit the gym 365 days per yr. and remain actively engaged in counting the "sexuall" (sic) activity to prove whether one percentile is qualifiable or not. 

I've lived in 4 metropolitan areas and have witnessed unbelievable "activity" by men who were executives, deacons in churches, Muslim clerics, college basketball players, etc.  In otherwords, what is relative here is who sees what-when-where-how.  "Woof!" 

Rip Tobin said:

The percentage of sexuall activity really varies by neighborhood.  It's high but not 60% although ********60% of the guys might be down with it*****-- and watch!  Old YMCAs like the one on 23rd Street in Manhattan were extremely active, especially in the executive club which had a private sauna, private showers, and steam room.  All the executive clubs were active.  I'm sure that's partly why they were eliminated.  I think the percentage is more like 10-20%. 

An observation:  I've spet time working out at a couple of really heavy-duty Venice, CA gyms--World and Gold's.  Both are constantly filled with their share of title-holders.  Interesting thing was--from the big guys--they seldom used the locker room, showers, or sauna.  They came in in their gym gear, worked through that day's schedule, and they left (in their unchanged) gym clothes).  Hard to describe, but there was always, what I'll call, a sexually-uncharged, calm atmosphere.  Sure,you met guys, had some pleasant words--but deeper than that happened outside the gym

 

Most probably but I am sure they are away from the gym/clubs but hey its 2012 what else is new.....be free and be yourself is what I say.......do YOU......

That depends on the gym and location....I would have to say depending on the site of the gym the percentage fluctuates but that seems like an observation from my stand point plus I'm a newbie to the gym and already I can see it I had a Guy make a "kind of a pass" at me....smdh at the way he went about tho

I think that regardless of the "type" of gym or the "clientele" or even "location" sexual tension/curiosity is virtually inevitable. People may or may not choose to act out, but trust me the fantasies/curiosities are alive and well. I remember (during my earlier more naive years) finding out that some of the more "masculine" and rugged Body builders at the gym were seen at an all men orgies. These men were very "focused" at the gym and did their work out and left, sometimes without as much as showering....but that's another thread....LOL...sometimes the only deterrent to "acting out" is the fear of getting caught!

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